When recovering from chronic pain, we often come to the mistaken conclusion that in order to heal we need to avoid all stress and access absolute safety. This post explores the mind-body connection, shifting our perspective on stress an safety, and practical invitations to inhabit our full liveliness and heal.

If you've ever felt like you're "not good at healing," you're not alone. In this entry, I share a story from my mom that offers a tender metaphor for navigating the inevitable "potholes" of our healing journey. With humor, compassion, and curiosity, this piece invites a more forgiving and sustainable relationship with self-care, change, and inner growth.

What sticky dough, lopsided loaves, and a very persistent inner critic showed me about healing. It isn’t about getting it perfect, but about showing up human, curious, and kind. Whether you're on your own healing path or supporting others, I hope this story offers some permission to soften, invite playfulness and joy, and begin again.

When someone you love is living with chronic pain, it can be hard to know how to help, especially when nothing you do can take the pain away. And if you’re in a caregiving role, formally or informally, you may be carrying more than anyone realizes. In this post, I’m sharing real, practical ways to support your loved one without losing sight of yourself in the process.