“I’m Not Good at Healing”: Learning to Steer with Kindness
If you've ever felt like you're "not good at healing," you're not alone. In this entry, I share a story from my mom that offers a tender metaphor for navigating the inevitable "potholes" of our healing journey. With humor, compassion, and curiosity, this piece invites a more forgiving and sustainable relationship with self-care, change, and inner growth.
On First Tries, Sticky Dough, and Letting Go of Imperfectionism as We Heal
What sticky dough, lopsided loaves, and a very persistent inner critic showed me about healing. It isn’t about getting it perfect, but about showing up human, curious, and kind. Whether you're on your own healing path or supporting others, I hope this story offers some permission to soften, invite playfulness and joy, and begin again.
When Anxiety and Physical Symptoms Show Up: A Gentle Reframe and Ways to Respond
Struggling with anxiety and physical symptoms in everyday stressful moments? Discover a gentle reframe from managing to tending to your experience, learn why self-talk often falls short, and explore compassionate practices that can help soothe your nervous system.
The Enchanted Loom: A Mindbody Approach to Chronic Pain Recovery
Weaving new neural pathways and possibilities healing, meaning, and ease. Integratingartful intentionality and the cultivation of liveliness in a way that does not banish the difficult parts of our story, but integrates them more fully into a rich tapestry of experience, honoring the full range of what it means to be human.
Rethinking Diagnoses: They Often Explain Less Than We Think
Is your diagnosis the whole story — or just the beginning? Let’s invite a fresh perspective on chronic symptoms and nociplastic pain, exploring how labels like fibromyalgia or depression can limit understanding. Drawing on insights from dormitive principles, we open space for curiosity, compassion, and the possibility of true healing.
What keeps the pain cycle going?
Hypervigilance, pain catastrophizing, and avoidance are all natural responses to pain — and at the same time they can contribute to a pain-fear-avoidance cycle. Changing these behaviors, starting from a place of curious inquiry, can play a significant part in recovery.
The Role of Adversity, Personality, Depression, and PTSD in Chronic Pain
Childhood adversity, depression, post-traumatic stress and personality traits can all play a role in chronic pain — and recovery. Healing is about experiencing a greater sense of agency, being in charge of our own healing, and reclaiming our lives.
Bodymind (re)learning for wellbeing and ease: a path towards healing and freedom from persistent pain and other symptoms
The fact that your pain/symptom has been ‘chronic’ does not mean that it will last forever.