Reclaim Your Life

from persistent pain, fatigue, and other symptoms

Find your unique path through mindbody
healing practices, and recover the freedom
to do what brings you joy, meaning, and fulfillment

With my compassionate support & collaborative guidance, you will: 

  • Be heard & respected because you know your bodymind best

  • Uncover & tend to the deeper roots of your symptoms

  • Cultivate lasting healing with tailored tools & practices

  • “Alleviated my pain & helped me find a new way of inhabiting my body…”

    “When I first saw Lilia, my body had been trapped in a chronic pain cycle for a long time. My feet suffered cramps that could last for hours, even days, and each episode felt like a never-ending battle. But beyond physical pain, I also carried a lot of frustration, a lot of anger, and a lack of self-compassion. Lilia not only offered tools to relieve the pain, but guided me with patience and empathy to understand its root causes. She taught me to listen to my body with kindness, to recognize the signals coming from my brain and, above all, to turn off the alarm systems that kept me in a constant state of hyperalert. 

    Among the resources she recommended, Curable made an invaluable difference in my healing process. The space Lilia created was a safe haven, a place where I could be me without judgment, where I could honestly explore the impact many experiences had had on me. Thanks to her support and witnessing, I learned to look at myself with more compassion and to trust my ability to recover. Today I look back and recognize that this path would have been so much harder without her. I am deeply grateful that Lilia has been part of my healing process, because her guidance not only alleviated my pain, but helped me find a new way of inhabiting my body and my story.”

    – E.G.

  • “No longer avoiding things out of fear…”

    “Dr. Graue helped me understand that after an experience of intense pain from an injury, my brain was trying to protect me by reactivating the pain, and although my impulse was to keep my hand still and not move it beyond the time it took for the injury to heal, it actually needs to move to recover. She helped me understand that messages of trust and confidence can greatly influence my experience of pain, and engaging these messages has helped me have less pain. I am still working on it, my hand is getting stronger, and although the pain comes and goes I am doing more of my daily activities, and with more confidence. 

    I can do more and more as time goes by, and when the pain comes I remind my brain that I am healthy and strong. I am no longer avoiding things out of fear, and I am driving again. I am so grateful! If I were to describe what you do to someone else, I would tell them you teach how, in the absence of an injury, or after an injury has healed, our brain wants to protect us by creating pain signals, and how we can let our brain know that we are healthy and that moving is safe and good for us.”

    – L.O.

  • "Exceptionally comforting, safe, and coherent healing container..."

    “Dr. Graue’s exceptional and comprehensive training allows her to see with a perspective that feels more complete and whole than any other practitioner I've seen. With other providers over the years, they’ve come from such a narrow lens, and I felt like they were superimposing their framework, their modality onto what they felt like my healing should look like, rather than being able to step back and see what was actually happening and really meet me where I could feel seen.

    Lily’s training only matches her inherent gifts for being able to step back and see with clarity and just intuitive badassery. She is a natural healer, and because of that and her commitment to her work she can provide a holistic container with everything that her clients need in their healing journey. It's like a one-stop shop for healing, particularly from any mind-body concern or challenge.

    Something else that’s been so helpful is being able to engage with my healing process with more presence and confidence and courage, and reestablish what was actually possible, what I experienced to be possible. The healing container Lily provides is exceptionally comforting, safe, and coherent, to the point where it feels like things are able to transform with relative ease. I feel safe to bring up even the most sticky or triggering or traumatic parts of my experience, and I am able to process and move through with a sense of relative comfort, and safety, and ease.”

    J.R.

  • “Helped me make peace with myself…”

    “The most important thing is that Lilia has helped me so much to accept myself just as I am, and make peace with myself. I am 60 years old, and I’d never been able to before. She’s helped me to stop demanding things of myself that I can’t do, to understand myself, to put things in their right place and dimension, to understand why I feel the way I feel, why some of the things I feel are just OK, and I’ve learned to manage my relationships, especially my very complicated relationship with my daughter, without being so impetuous, without acting from anger, having more perspective. I feel Lilia understands me really well.”

    – M.A.

RECLAIM YOUR LIFE is for you if…

  • You’ve consulted with multiple healthcare professionals and your symptoms are still a mystery, you’ve been told they may be stress-related, and/or the treatments offered have only provided partial and temporary relief

  • You are curious about the mind-body connection and ready to explore healing and recovery through both a holistic lens and a grounded, science-based perspective

  • You are smart, resourceful, and great at problem solving — which makes it all the more frustrating that your symptoms continue to be a struggle

  • You think, feel, and care deeply, and need support that can hold your full experience 

  • You’ve been told you have multiple food allergies or sensitivities, or that your symptoms are connected to what you eat, but diet changes have either not worked or made things worse while severely restricting your life

  • You experience anxiety and/or depression, (complex) post traumatic stress, sleep related struggles, and/or struggles in your relationship with food and/or your body image

  • You’re exploring alternatives to a surgical procedure for some kind of chronic pain, e.g. spinal surgery for chronic back pain, nerve block or ablation for neuralgia

You are not imagining this. 
And you don’t have to live with it forever.

We are told it’s all in our heads. Or we are told we are incurable

We are told to just relax, just believe, just take this medication. Or we are told to learn to manage, because we’ll never be back to normal. 

There is a growing body of evidence to support that all pain perception is constructed in the brain and central nervous system. That means what we feel is very real — and also within our power to change. 

The challenge is: reweaving neural pathways is not as straightforward as mending a broken bone, nor as simple as thinking new thoughts…

The process is layered, nonlinear,
and unique to each of us 

Every one of us arrives at this work with different skills, different levels of support, and different social contexts. 

Experiences of trauma, living in bodies that are the target of stigma, discrimination, and oppression, and the pathologization of our adaptive responses to adversity and injustice all have an impact on our embodiment, health, and wellbeing. 

That’s why healing isn’t one-size-fits-all, and there's no shame in a path that takes time or looks different from what others expect.

I will help you find the path that is yours to walk,
and follow it home to a state of ease.

The medical system isn’t built to support 

We are not meant to do this alone. 

Some people can, and do. Their stories stand out, but they are not typical.

In many of the stories we hear, what goes unspoken is a backdrop of social support and resources. 

Ultimately, nobody heals in isolation. We heal in connection, in a nourishing context, and in relationship.

Here are 3 reasons why human support is so often the turning point in this work:

1       CO-REGULATION

Our central nervous system requires a baseline level of safety to access curiosity and learning. We are relational beings, and access to kind, supportive presence fosters the safety and trust we need to begin, explore, or go deeper.

2      CLARITY

It often takes a caring conversation to see our own knowing clearly—especially when we’ve been disconnected from our bodymind’s wisdom and distanced from our needs. We deserve support to parse the noise and discern what’s true for us.

3       COMPASSION

The adaptive responses that once helped us survive — like perfectionism or a loud inner critic — can now get in the way of our healing. A compassionate partner helps us transform how we see and relate to ourselves so we can keep showing up lovingly and patiently on this winding path.

The key isn’t trying harder. 

It’s trying differently  

I know the frustration of, “I’ve tried everything, nothing is working, what am I doing wrong?” 

You couldn’t possibly try any harder. And you don’t have to.  

Like me, you’ve probably seen countless physicians, therapists, and healers, many of them the “best” or most renowned in their fields. Maybe you’ve tried medications, acupuncture, massage, reiki, diets, supplements, special pillows, orthotic devices, and biohacking routines. Maybe some of it helps you manage, but it all demands constant vigilance, putting ever tighter bounds around life while symptoms persist. 

I want you to know you’re not doing anything wrong. 

Mainstream Medicine has conditioned us to relate to our symptoms as something to be feared, fought, fixed, and figured out. And it is only human to want to make discomfort go away. Paradoxically, that tenacity and striving only amplifies the danger signals, and in turn, more deeply entrenches the bodymind’s protective response. 

In our work together, I will gently support you in relating to your pain in a radically different way. Because even though the exact steps will be unique to you…

That is how you recover your freedom.  

A life worth living is
waiting for you to reclaim it.  

You don’t have to focus singularly on healing.
You get to start experiencing more presence, connection, and joy, now.
When you give your bodymind permission to live, you are weaving neural pathways for healing.

As you learn to…   

Respond to symptoms in a way that frees up time & energy, shifting focus to the life you want to build 

Engage in movement, socializing, and travel — even in the presence of fear

Advocate for yourself with healthcare professionals  & rely less on supplements, strict diets, or medications 

Set supportive boundaries because they honor you and your values, not because you are ill or in pain

Befriend and express your full range of emotions so your bodymind won’t forever speak in symptoms

Reconnect with your capacity to experience joy and pleasure, even in the presence of pain

One day you may find yourself…  

Sitting for a long conversation in any chair and not thinking of your pain once

Playing joyfully with your kids or pets without worry of getting hurt

Returning to your work with a renewed sense of purpose and peace

Exercising as much as you want, whenever you want, without pain or fatigue defining your limits

Going out to restaurants and ordering what you want without fear

Travelling without packing your special pillows, confident you can sleep well on any mattress

Dancing with abandon without dreading the crash that used to follow 

Waking up in the morning deeply rested,  full of delight

There are infinite ways to
engage your bodymind’s healing capacity…
 

Together we’ll find what works for you.

Attuning to your particular needs and adjusting as we go, I draw from a rich repertoire of science-backed approaches, mindfulness practices, and emotional processing techniques to help you activate lasting healing. 

Modalities and practices include:  

  • Neuroscience & Psychoneuroimmunology Education. What we believe and understand about our symptoms has an impact on our embodied experience. Learning to make sense of your symptoms in a different light can change your experience of them in real time.

  • Pain Reprocessing Therapy (PRT). This evidence-based system of psychological techniques helps the brain unlearn persistent pain and repattern neural pathways. Certified at the Mastery Level, I offer collaborative guidance and practice that accounts for your whole self and story. 

  • Mindfulness & Compassion. Healing can feel like a test we’re failing anytime symptoms appear — and the pressure to control or eliminate them can keep us stuck. These practices can help you step out of fixing mode and self-judgment, and meet yourself and others with greater presence and kindness — even in the midst of pain.

  • Emotional Awareness & Expression Therapy (EAET). Depending on our life story, we may learn that certain emotions are unsafe or unacceptable. Pain can become their messenger. This work helps you listen in, befriend the full range of emotions, and move forward with more freedom, hope, and joy. 

  • Nervous System Regulation. A hyperalert, oversensitized, or dysregulated nervous system keeps threat physiology and stress responses (fight, flight, freeze, fawn, flop) activated, eliciting pain and other symptoms. You’ll learn to engage your relaxation response to shift from survival mode to resilience and well-being. 

  • Grief Tending. For many of us, symptoms arise during or after experiences of loss that we were expected to just “get over.” As we honor the full spectrum of human experience, our nervous system can shift from protection to integration. 

  • Self-Trust & Discernment. We get to reclaim our agency and sovereignty instead of our pain, or pain experts, making decisions for us. With discernment you’ll exit the revolving door of medications and treatments, and pare down to what’s truly helpful.

  • Graded Exposure to Movement. With visualizations, affirmations, and small steps, you can gradually regain the strength, flexibility, and trust in your body to get back to the long walks, bike rides, exercise, and dancing you love. 

  • Supportive Boundaries. As caring people, we want to be good to others. And, people-pleasing can get in the way of meeting our needs — building resentment and eroding our inner trust. Rooting in your values, you’ll learn how to set kind boundaries that honor your worthiness and create the space and peace you need to heal and thrive. 

  • Restorative Rest. Intentional rest is a radical and tender act of care — especially in a world that asks us to push through and override our needs. This practice invites you to step out of urgency and into a gentler rhythm, not to escape your experience, but to meet it with presence. Through deep listening, you’ll soften your pace and replenish your bodymind. 

  • Joy Reclamation. We’ll identify what brings you peace and pleasure, and help you bring that into your everyday life, even if it sounds impossible. As you expand your capacity for joy, you’ll restore the energy and vitality you need to heal. 

Throughout our time together, I’ll guide you through my flexible framework: 

The EASE Method

Healing isn’t about forcing change, it’s about engaging your bodymind’s innate healing capacity. 

While the exact practices and pace will be unique to you,

the EASE method describes the four essential threads I weave into every recovery journey:  

ENTRUST

When you create an inner sense of safety and trust, your body and nervous system can release bracing and protective patterns, and open to new possibilities for healing, moving, resting, playing, socializing, and working.

ATTUNE

Meet your emotions, sensations, needs, and desires with curiosity and compassion instead of judgment, and skillfully give yourself the rest, nourishment, movement, and boundaries you need to feel supported, connected, and energized.

SOFTEN

Release any shame, expectations to achieve a certain outcome, or pressure to do recovery — or life — perfectly. Instead, take meaningful and imperfect action, reduce tension, and let healing unfold.

EXPAND

Healing and recovery are not just about symptom relief. They’re about moving out of constriction and building the life you want to live, growing your ability to be with those you love and do more of what brings you joy, meaning, and fulfillment.

If you’re new to this space…

I’m Dr. Lilia Graue. 

I’m a Physician, Psychotherapist, and Mindbody Healing Mentor with 25+ years of clinical and teaching experience.

I’m also someone who lived with persistent pain for 10 years before discovering a neural repatterning program that led to my full recovery.

Before that, it seemed as though I had tried everything.

I was convinced I would never again be able to exercise freely, sit for long conversations, or travel without my special pillow. But here I am, doing all of that and more. 

Amazed and inspired, in 2021 I took a semi-sabbatical to further my studies in the neuroscience of pain, psychoneuroimmunology, and mindbody medicine, and began supporting people on their pain healing journeys. 

Since then, I’ve witnessed incredible recoveries dozens and dozens of times. 

And I’ve observed how each of us has a unique set of challenges, as well as our own mix of resources and skills that can bolster this work. Healing looks different for everyone. 

The process isn’t always easy, but it’s always worth it. 

You know your bodymind best, and
there is no one right way to engage your
infinite healing capacity.

Pain and recovery cannot be separated from the spiritual, environmental, or cultural fabric of our lives.

That is why I bring together science-backed tools, integrative practices, and a nuanced contextual understanding into a collaborative method that is rooted, not rigid.

The courage, commitment, and patience this process asks of us are much more easily sourced in partnership.

I consider it my privilege, purpose, and deep source of fulfillment to support you on your path.

Together, let’s weave your way back to ease. 

Reclaim Your Life 

Find your unique path through mindbody healing practices, and recover the freedom to do what brings you joy, meaning, and fulfillment

6-month program

  • 8 weekly 50-min sessions

  • 8 biweekly 50-min sessions

  • 8 off-week email check-ins

  • High-touch collaboration and regular nourishment to create a deeper sense of safety, grounding, and clarity on your path

  • Locate areas of focus, practice together, and get the perspective you need to keep moving on your mindbody healing journey

  • Ongoing support as you encounter challenges and stretch your capacity

  • Bespoke teaching, tools, resources, and collaborative practice

Investment: £7,500

This container — in its rhythm and duration — is the one I’ve found most supportive for creating momentum and sustaining healing and integration. If something different feels more aligned for you, we can explore possibilities together in a Bodymind Ease Wayfinding Session.

Ready to explore working together?

We start with a Bodymind Ease Wayfinding Session.

Questions? Email me.

Skepticism is natural, valid, and welcome… 

Your doubts belong too. 

I know how hard you’ve tried. How many times you’ve been disappointed. And how you may be questioning if you can really do this when you’ve been so impaired by your symptoms for so long. 

That’s fair. Truthfully…

Magical as our capacity to heal can seem, the path isn’t always easy. I remember how on many days, retraining my brain felt like a really hard thing to do. 

And, it was easier and more rewarding than managing pain 24/7 while watching my life get smaller and smaller. It was less expensive than spending thousands on acupuncturists, osteopaths, physiotherapists, supplements, and special chairs and pillows  — and a far better investment. And it freed me from the overwhelming roller coaster of never-ending appointments with scary diagnoses and painful procedures. 

At the same time, I began this work skeptical, convinced by my doctors the best I could hope for was learning to manage my pain, and bedridden after losing access to the only two things that helped me get through the days.

If you’re in that place, I understand completely. I know the tenderness and vulnerability of opening ourselves up to hope, and I hold deep care for the protective parts of you that want to keep you safe from disappointment. 

And I invite skepticism to join us as we gently expand into the possibilities for healing, growing, and living. 

So often we think we need to wait for our symptoms to go away before our life can truly begin again. But the opposite is true: it’s when we choose to live fully that the real healing happens. 

When you’re ready to reclaim your life, I’m here to walk alongside you.

Curious about working together,
and seeking more clarity? 

START WITH:

The Bodymind Ease Wayfinding Session 

Because this work is nuanced and deeply personal, even the first step deserves time and care.

So that we can explore spaciously and arrive at an honest assessment of what’s best for you, I offer a one-time, 50-minute session for a single payment, with zero pitch or pressure to continue. It’s a chance to arrive fully, look into some of your questions with care, and explore whether working together feels right.

Before our session, I’ll ask that you answer a few questions to get a better sense of the kind of support you are seeking, in as much or as little detail as feels supportive to you.

While we won’t have time to unravel every question or turn every page in your story, you can expect to walk away with: 

  • Personalized insight into your unique experience of pain or symptoms—what might be contributing, what your body may be communicating, and where we might begin to invite more ease.

  • Clarity on the kind of support that would serve you best at this point in your healing journey

  • Carefully selected resources attuned to your needs

  • Thoughtful guidance toward another practitioner or path, if working together isn’t the most supportive next step

Investment £350*

*If you choose to move forward with the 6 month pathway within 14 days, this cost will be credited toward your mentorship program.

Can’t find a time that works?

Email me and let’s see what we might open up.

  • "Turning on a light and illuminating a path toward healing..."

    “Dr. Graue is gentle, kind, and caring, she offers a genuinely judgment-free and empathetic space. Additionally, the depth of her knowledge and expertise is unmistakable.

    After 16 years of enduring chronic pain and repeatedly feeling misunderstood in healthcare settings, I felt helpless and hopeless. Lily helped me understand the role of my brain and nervous system in pain and recovery, shared resources that resonated with my experience, and supported me with practices to help me find balance through graded exposure, easing back into activities I love but had been avoiding.

    Working with her has been like turning on a light—helping me make sense of my past and present, become kinder and more compassionate toward myself, and illuminating a clear path toward healing. I’ll be eternally grateful.”

    V.B.

  • “Infinite gratitude for life…”

    “If I had to describe my work with Lilia in a few words, I would say it has been healing and magical. A companioning in the recovery of my mental health that has felt like a warm and welcoming hug. At times a steady presence to lean on so as not to fall, at times someone who speaks the difficult truths. I feel infinite gratitude for life, for allowing me to find such a wonderful and capable professional, and for her, for accepting me and being willing to walk a difficult path by my side.”

    A. F.

Restore safety.

Reweave neural pathways. 

Reclaim your life. 


You don't have to outrun the pain any longer.

You don’t have to shrink your life to survive it.

Ease is a possibility your bodymind remembers. 

Healing doesn’t require you to work harder, be better, or figure it all out on your own.

It begins by relating to your symptoms differently, rebuilding trust in your body, and making space for joy, movement, and connection once again.

I would be honored to walk alongside you as you reclaim your freedom, your vitality, and your life.

Or click here to start with a Wayfinding Session.

FAQs

  • I don’t offer complimentary discovery calls — and I’d love to share why.

    This work is nuanced and complex. In my experience, 15–30 minutes isn’t enough time for your nervous system to settle, for me to meaningfully understand your experience, or for either of us to assess fit with the care it deserves. Those short sessions can end up feeling rushed — and don’t allow for the kind of presence I value at every stage of this work.

    Rather than offer a brief call that risks feeling transactional or performative, I invite you to begin with a Wayfinding Session — a one-time, 50-minute paid session. This is not a sales pitch. It’s a chance to arrive fully, explore some of your questions with care, and explore whether working together feels right and if so, at what pace. 

    While I won’t be able to answer every question you might have or dive into every aspect of your story in just one session, what I can do is offer perspective, insight, and clarity about next steps. If it’s a fit, we can continue. And if not, I’ll point you toward thoughtful referrals or resources that may better serve you. 

    If you decide to move forward with the 6 month pathway within 14 days, the full cost of the Wayfinding session will be credited toward your mentorship program. 

    Click here to book your Bodymind Ease Wayfinding Session.

  • Many of my clients experience a full recovery from their symptoms. Some people see significant improvement quickly. Others need more time to build the safety, clarity, and the internal shifts that allow for sustained change.

    Healing is nonlinear, and there’s no infallible protocol that guarantees recovery within a fixed timeframe. That said, with dedication and practice, this work consistently brings meaningful shifts. You’ll find your symptoms become far less disruptive — and just as importantly, you’ll begin to feel more grounded, more confident, and more connected to life.

    Because this process is deeply personal, I don’t measure success by a single outcome. In fact, narrowly focusing on the absence of symptoms as an outcome can hinder the shifts we want to bring about. (You might have already learned that outcome independence is a core tenet of Pain Reprocessing Therapy.) Instead, I invite you to expand the definition of what healing means for you. It might look like:

    • Re-engaging with activities you’d stopped doing

    • Trying that thing you’ve always wanted to with a renewed sense of agency

    • Feeling less anxious or preoccupied by symptoms

    • Finding that fear no longer runs your life

    • Sitting for long conversations in any chair, and traveling without lugging around special pillows

    • Sleeping better and feeling greater ease and calm day-to-day

    • Ditching Dr. Google and trusting your body again

    • Being kind to yourself, free from the endless loop of negative self-talk

    • Meeting your experience and feelings with curiosity and equanimity

    • Setting boundaries in a way that feels supportive

    • Reconnecting with joy, purpose, creativity, and community

    • Having more energy and presence for your loved ones

    • Cultivating whatever it is you want to grow in your life, and taking steps to move towards what is important and meaningful, instead of being trapped in trying to outrun your symptoms

    Whether or not pain or other symptoms fully resolve, these outcomes reflect a return to vitality, and a sense of freedom as the healing journey continues alongside a meaningful, vibrant life. The process to get here is not always easy, but it is always worth it. 

  • Click here to review a list of symptoms and diagnoses commonly associated with nociplastic pain and symtoms arising from sensitized neural pathways and conditioned responses, rather than ongoing injury, illness, or structural damage. If you are experiencing one or more of the symptoms or have been diagnosed with a condition included in this list, there is hope for full recovery through a mindbody approach. 

    Beyond the list, my personal experience and over 25 years of practicing medicine and psychotherapy have shown me over and over again that anyone and everyone can grow in ease, wellbeing and liveliness through a mindbody approach. Even in the presence of illnesses in which a genetic or biological aspect is more prominent (.i.e. “structural” conditions, including musculoskeletal injuries, neurodegenerative diseases, autoimmune conditions, and cancer), we can harness the power of bioplasticity to enhance health and resilience and live more fully. 

    If you’re curious to explore working together and want to ask about your particular condition, you can either get in touch here or book a standalone Bodymind Ease Wayfinding Session

  • The most truthful answer is time will tell.

    The majority of my clients who experience the most success work with me for 6-12 months, some for 3-4 months, and some for 18 months or longer.

    The amount of time and support needed may vary depending on the intensity of your pain or other symptoms, the degree of impairment you’re experiencing, how much support you have in your life, and your capacity for sustained self-direction with self-compassion. If you don’t have a lot of support, feel a lot of fear or resistance around getting started or staying consistent with new practices, or find that your inner critic is really loud, please know this is completely understandable.  

    Most of us find that our world and our social ties shrink when we fall into dis-ease, as contemporary life in most societies is simply not structured to support community, mutual aid, and care. Additionally, many of us have been taught to link our worth to feeling well and being more “productive”, making it even harder to meet ourselves with compassion in times of pain, illness, or limitation.

    I am dreaming of a world where that is not the case, and in the meantime, practitioners such as myself do provide support while meeting our own very real needs. 

    If you’re interested in working with me, I offer a 6 month pathway as a starting point, which includes 8 weekly sessions followed by 8 bi-weekly sessions. I’ve found this rhythm and duration to be especially supportive in building momentum and sustaining healing and integration over time. 

    That said, the mentorship pathways I offer are designed to be flexible and responsive, with a range of time frames to support your unique needs. If a different structure feels more aligned for you, we can explore options together in a Bodymind Ease Wayfinder Session.

  • The Reclaim Your Life 6 month pathway starts with a weekly frequency for the first 8 weeks, and then shifts to bi-weekly frequency. This container — in its rhythm and duration — is the one I’ve found most supportive for creating momentum and sustaining healing and integration. That said, depending on where you are on your recovery journey, and on whether you’re working with other providers or participating in a group program or classes, we can explore other possibilities together in a Bodymind Ease Wayfinding Session

  • Sessions are 50 minutes and shaped by your needs at that moment. We may explore education around pain science or nervous system regulation, bring awareness to stuck patterns, practice mindfulness tools and somatic techniques together, offer space to connect with emotions that have been hard to access or express, or tend to grief around loss and recovery — yes, there is grief around recovering and healing too.

    Some sessions are spacious and reflective. Others are more structured or directed. Always, we’ll work collaboratively, and move at the pace your bodymind can integrate. 

  • I offer between-session email check-ins in the latter portion of the 6-month pathway. Otherwise, our work together will be focused within our scheduled sessions. This boundary supports the depth and sustainability of the care I provide, and also honors your capacity to integrate the work between sessions.

  • If you’re new to my work, you’re to begin with a one-time Bodymind Ease Wayfinder Session.

    Ongoing mentorship is available through programs with a set timeframe. I offer a 6-month pathway as a starting point, as I’ve found that this rhythm and duration provide meaningful support in building momentum and sustaining healing and integration over time. If a different structure feels more aligned for you, we can explore possibilities together during your Bodymind Ease Wayfinder Session. At this time, I don’t offer session-by-session availability for new clients.

    Once you’ve completed a mentorship program, you’re welcome to add individual sessions as needed.

    And if we’ve worked together before, I’m always glad to offer one-off sessions to check in and support you on your ongoing healing journey.

  • If you believe you're dealing with a new or acute medical issue, it's important to consult a licensed healthcare provider in your country.

    While I cannot diagnose or treat you medically in the context of mentorship, I bring decades of medical and psychotherapeutic experience into our work. I can offer education, context, and perspective to help you better understand your symptoms and have more informed conversations with your care team.

  • Yes. Many of my clients experience mental health challenges, or have received psychiatric diagnoses, including depression, anxiety, and post traumatic stress, and find this work deeply supportive.

    In fact, many of the symptoms in the realm of mental health can be understood in different ways from a mindbody and person-centered perspective. We can conceive them as nociplastic, and as understandable manifestations of distress, making sense of them in a way that honors your unique story, context, and culture. I don’t believe our challenges are signs of something broken or disordered, but rather meaningful responses to the complexities of our life and environment.

    Together, we’ll explore what’s arising with curiosity and compassion, creating space for insight, healing, and change that’s rooted in connection—not labels.

    It’s important to note that while I bring decades of experience as a physician and psychotherapist to our work, my role in mentorship is not to diagnose or treat mental health conditions. I offer deep presence, education, nervous system– and trauma-informed support, and collaborative meaning-making. If you’re in active crisis or in need of clinical mental health care, I may encourage you to work alongside a licensed therapist or psychiatrist as part of your support system.

  • While I only offer clinical care as a physician and psychotherapist to residents of Mexico, I bring those lenses — and that extensive training and experience — into every session of pain recovery mentorship.

    This means I can help you: 

    • Make sense of complex medical language, 

    • Translate confusing or scary diagnoses or findings, 

    • Integrate context and nuance in a way that reduces fear and overwhelm 

    • And offer guidance and education that’s both accurate and compassionate 

    Rather than spiral or get lost down rabbit holes of internet searches or worst-case scenarios, you gain access to insight, grounded education, and practical guidance rooted in expertise and evidence-based practice.

    Equally — or perhaps, even more — important, I am deeply comfortable with the full range of human experience, from health to debilitating illness, from uncertain prognosis to end of life, and from deep challenge to thriving through connection, creativity, and purpose.

    I’ve sat with people of all ages in moments of all-consuming fear and grief, physical vulnerability, emotional complexity, trauma responses, and profound transition — as well as moments of expansive joy, deep love, and the vibrant aliveness that can emerge even in the midst of loss and difficulty.

    This has deepened my ability to stay present, attuned, and steady even in experiences that may feel especially intense, unsettling, triggering, or overwhelming. 

    You don’t have to go through those moments alone. I will meet whatever unfolds with radical presence, curiosity, clarity, and compassion.

  • My rates are structured with care and intention to reflect the time, expertise, presence, and deep labor — emotional, intellectual, and somatic — that this work requires, while also sustaining my practice and meeting my financial needs and responsibilities, including caregiving for my elders in Mexico. This allows me to continue showing up fully and sustainably for those I serve.  

    Fair compensation for care work, especially when offered by women and practitioners from historically excluded communities, is part of the more just world I’m working toward.

    As part of my commitment to equity and sustainability, I offer as many sliding scale spots as I can while still meeting my needs, with priority given to those in countries with lower income and limited or no access to welfare or social security. At this time, all spots are full, and there is a waitlist.

    You're warmly invited to join the waitlist. When you do, you'll receive a curated list of trusted, like-minded practitioners who may currently have availability at a lower rate.

    Sliding scale for my mentorship services starts at £3,750 per 6 month pathway.

    I know for many this will still be prohibitive, and I offer a growing library of free resources and practices, as well as periodic free or low-cost workshops. If you'd like to stay connected and be the first to hear when new offerings become available, you're warmly invited to join my mailing list. I’d love to share these resources with you.

  • I am not in-network with any insurance providers. 

    Depending on where you live, and on your insurer, you may be able to receive some reimbursement if your policy has out-of-network benefits. In order to do this, you will be required to have your Primary Care Practitioner provide a diagnosis for you, and approve in writing the services you’ll be receiving from me. 

    It is best to call your insurance company to find out what your benefits are, to see if you are eligible for reimbursement. 

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