Here, you never have to feel
like you’re doing healing wrong.
There is no one right way to heal — or to run a healing practice.
You deserve to be met with compassion, curiosity, and care
as you find what works for you.
Get clarity on what’s driving your chronic pain, fatigue, or other persistent symptoms, and how to move toward healing and recovery:
In-Depth Assessment
1:1 Mind-Body Symptom Educational Exploration
Together, we’ll make sense of what’s happening in your body and mind, exploring whether neuroplastic processes are contributing, easing doubts and fears, and bringing insight to patterns that may be keeping symptoms in place.
You’ll leave with an evidence-informed framework that illuminates what’s at play, offers confidence for your next steps, and supports your movement toward healing and recovery in a way that honors all of you.
If you seek healing and freedom from life-disrupting
pain, fatigue, or other unexplained symptoms:
Reclaim Your Life
1:1 Healing Mentorship
Find your unique path through mindbody healing practices, and
step into the freedom to do what brings you joy, meaning, and fulfillment.
If you’re a mindbody practitioner seeking ways to thrive in your work and life, and bring your most impactful work to life in a way that’s sustainable and aligned:
Replenish Your Practice
1:1 Regenerative Mentorship for Healing Professionals and Coaches
Provide meaningful care with greater peace, presence, and confidence,
while cultivating a practice aligned with your values and sustainable for you.
If you want to explore your innate healing capacity in community:
MindBody Healing Workshops
I periodically host free and low-cost workshops so we may practice mindbody healing skills, grief tending, mindfulness and compassion together, as well as ask questions, meet each other, and share our experiences.
Sign up with your email to join us for the next event.
If you’re a professional in the mindbody & pain recovery space who wants to deepen your practice in community:
Intervision for
Mindbody Practitioners
I host ongoing intervision groups for pain recovery clinicians, coaches, and mindbody practitioners who want a supportive space to reflect on cases, ask questions, share insights, and tend to the inner work that sustains our outer work.
Together, we engage in curious exploration, embodied presence, and peer support — so you don’t have to hold it all alone.
Curious about working together,
and seeking more clarity?
Whether you want to…
🌸 Reclaim Your Life from chronic pain, fatigue, and other exhausting symptoms, and
find your path to lasting healing, and start doing what brings you meaning and joy
or
🌸 Replenish Your Practice as a pain recovery clinician, coach, or healer, to
provide deep impactful care without sacrificing your health, joy, or stability
We Start With
The Wayfinding Session
Because this work is nuanced and deeply personal, even the first step deserves time and care.
So that we can thoughtfully and spaciously explore what may be most supportive for you, I offer a one-time, 50-minute session for a single payment, with zero pressure to continue.
It’s a chance to arrive fully, look into some of your questions with care, and explore whether working together feels right.
Before our session, I’ll ask that you answer a few questions to get a better sense of the kind of support you are seeking, in as much or as little detail as feels supportive to you.
While we won’t have time to unravel every question or turn every page in your story, you can expect to walk away with:
Personalized insight into your unique experience, whether
of pain or symptoms—what might be contributing, what your body may be communicating,
or
of what you want to bring into being for your practice helping others heal,
and where we might begin to invite more ease and vitality;
Clarity on the kind of support that would serve you best at this point in your learning and/or healing journey;
Relief from pressure to have it all figured out, fix everything, or do it alone;
Thoughtful referrals if another path feels more aligned.
Investment £350
Ready to begin?
Questions? Email me.
Wondering if you can benefit from a mindbody approach?
Click below for more information about
diagnosed and undiagnosed symptoms
that can resolve through a mindbody approach.
If we haven’t met…
I’m Dr. Lilia Graue.
I’m a Physician, Psychotherapist, and Mindbody Healing Mentor with 25+ years of clinical and teaching experience.
I’m also someone who lived with persistent pain for 10 years before discovering a neural repatterning program that led to my recovery.
Before that, it seemed as though I had tried everything.
I was convinced I would never again be able to exercise freely, sit for long conversations, or travel without my special pillow. But here I am, doing all of that and more.
Amazed and inspired, in 2021 I took a semi-sabbatical to further my studies in the neuroscience of pain, psychoneuroimmunology, and mindbody medicine. Since then, I’ve been supporting people on their healing journeys, and mentoring fellow mindbody practitioners who are looking to grow, deepen their work, and thrive in their practice.
In the years since, I’ve witnessed incredible healing, learning, and growth—not only in those recovering from chronic pain, fatigue, and other symptoms, but also in fellow practitioners deepening their skill, reconnecting with their purpose, and finding renewed energy in their work.
This path offers more than symptom relief or clinical tools; it opens the door to transformation, resilience, and a more expansive way of relating to ourselves, our work, and those we support.
Every one of us — whether healing, supporting others, or both — brings a unique story, a distinct set of challenges, and inner resources. While there’s no single path, this work can open doors to change that once felt out of reach, often leading to possibilities more meaningful, liberating, and life-giving than we ever imagined.
FAQs
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I don’t offer complimentary discovery calls, and I’d love to share why.
This work is nuanced and complex. In my experience, 15–30 minutes isn’t enough time for your nervous system to settle, for me to meaningfully understand your experience, or for either of us to assess fit with the care it deserves. Those short sessions can end up feeling rushed, and don’t allow for the kind of presence I value at every stage of this work.
Rather than offer a brief call that risks feeling transactional or performative, I invite you to begin with a Wayfinding Session, a one-time, 50-minute paid session. This is not a sales pitch. It’s a chance to arrive fully, explore some of your questions with care, and explore whether working together feels right and if so, at what pace.
While I won’t be able to answer every question you might have or dive into every aspect of your story in just one session, what I can do is offer perspective, insight, and clarity about possible next steps. If it’s a fit, we can continue. And if not, I’ll point you toward thoughtful referrals or resources that may better serve you.
Click here to book your Wayfinding Session.
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The most truthful answer is time will tell.
Many clients who experience meaningful shifts work with me for 6-12 months, some for 3-4 months, and some for 18 months or longer.
The amount of time and support needed may vary depending on a number of circumstances.
If you’re interested in working with me, I offer a 6 month pathway as a starting point, which includes 8 weekly sessions followed by 8 bi-weekly sessions. After more than two decades of working closely with clients, this 6-month rhythm and duration has been the most supportive in creating momentum and sustained learning, healing, and integration.
That said, the mentorship pathways I offer are designed to be flexible and responsive, with a range of time frames to support your unique needs. If a different structure feels more aligned for you, we can explore possibilities together. Book your Wayfinding Session and we’ll explore the best fit for you.
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My core 6-month mentorship pathways begin with weekly sessions for the first 8 weeks, then shift to bi-weekly sessions. This rhythm reflects the structure I have found most supportive in practice over many years of working with clients.
I also offer a more flexible format with a minimum three-month commitment and at least bi-weekly sessions. We can explore options together in a Wayfinding Session.
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Sessions are 50 minutes and shaped by your needs at that moment. We may explore education around pain science or nervous system regulation, bring awareness to stuck patterns, practice mindfulness tools and somatic techniques together, offer space to connect with emotions that have been hard to access or express, or tend to grief around loss and recovery — yes, there is grief around recovering and healing too.
Some sessions are spacious and reflective. Others are more structured or directed. Always, we’ll work collaboratively, and move at the pace your bodymind can integrate.
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I offer between-session email or WhatsApp communication for my 6-month mentoring program. Otherwise, our work together will be focused within our scheduled sessions. This boundary supports the depth and sustainability of the care I provide, and also honors your capacity to integrate the work between sessions.
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If you’re new to my work, we can begin with a one-time Wayfinding Session.
Ongoing mentorship is available through programs with a set timeframe. I offer a 6-month pathway as a starting point, as I’ve found that this rhythm and duration meaningfully support momentum and sustained integration over time.
I also offer a more flexible format with a minimum three-month commitment and at least bi-weekly sessions.
We can explore options together in a Wayfinding Session. At this time, I don’t offer session-by-session availability for new clients.
Once you’ve completed a mentorship program, you’re welcome to add individual sessions as needed.
And if we’ve worked together before, I’m always glad to offer one-off sessions to check in and support you on your ongoing journey.
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While I only offer clinical care as a physician and psychotherapist to individuals in Mexico, I bring those lenses — and that extensive training and experience — into every session of pain recovery mentorship.
This means I can help you:
Make sense of complex medical language;
Translate confusing or scary diagnoses or findings;
Integrate context and nuance in a way that reduces fear and overwhelm;
Offer educational guidance that’s both accurate and compassionate.
Rather than spiral or get lost down rabbit holes of internet searches or worst-case scenarios, you gain access to insight, grounded education, and practical guidance rooted in expertise and evidence-based practice.
After 25 years of practicing medicine and psychotherapy, I am deeply comfortable with the full range of human experience, from health to debilitating illness, from uncertain prognosis to end of life, and from deep challenge to thriving through connection, creativity, and purpose.
I’ve sat with people of all ages in moments of all-consuming fear and grief, physical vulnerability, emotional complexity, trauma responses, and profound transition, as well as moments of expansive joy, deep love, and the vibrant aliveness that can emerge even in the midst of loss and difficulty.
This has deepened my ability to stay present, attuned, and steady even in experiences that may feel especially intense, unsettling, triggering, or overwhelming.
You don’t have to go through those moments alone. I will meet what unfolds with radical presence, curiosity, clarity, and compassion.
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As part of my commitment to equity and sustainability, I offer a limited number of sliding scale spots, prioritized for those living in countries with lower average incomes and limited access to welfare or social security systems.
For pain recovery clients, all sliding scale spots are currently full. You can join the waitlist here. When you do, you will receive a curated list of independent practitioners who may have availability at lower rates.
For providers, a small number of sliding scale places may be available, with priority given to those working in Indigenous or community-based settings where full fees are not feasible. Please contact me to inquire about current availability. Sliding scale for my Wayfinding Session starts at £175. For 1:1 mentorship, sliding scale starts at £3,750 for the 6-month pathway, and £1,050 for the 3-month flexible pathway.
I know for many this will still be prohibitive, and I offer a growing library of free resources and practices, periodic free or low-cost workshops, and group spaces. If you'd like to stay connected and be the first to hear when new offerings become available, you're warmly invited to join my mailing list. I’d love to share these resources with you.
My rates are structured with care and intention to reflect the time, expertise, presence, and labor — emotional, intellectual, and somatic — that this work requires, while also sustaining my practice and meeting my financial needs and responsibilities, including caregiving for my elders in Mexico. This allows me to continue working in a sustainable way.
Fair compensation for care work, particularly for women and practitioners from historically excluded communities, is part of the more just world I’m working toward.
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I am not in-network with any insurance providers. Eligibility for reimbursement varies depending on the type of service, your insurer, and your individual policy. You may contact your insurer directly if you wish to confirm your specific coverage.
I provide a standard payment receipt reflecting the nature of the service as described in the Scope of Services section of my Terms & Conditions. I do not provide superbills, insurance claim forms, diagnostic or procedural codes, or additional documentation for insurance purposes beyond this standard receipt.
Explore additional FAQs if you…
Want to make sense of your symptoms, explore what role neuroplasticity may be playing, and how a mindbody approach can support healing and recovery
Want to heal from chronic pain, fatigue, and other exhausting symptoms, and find freedom to experience joy, meaning, and fulfillment
Are a practitioner in the mindbody medicine & pain recovery space looking for mentorship to support you and the work you do
Free Resources
Grief Tending Workshop
Untended grief is common in modern day cultures that push past loss. This free on-demand workshop helps you witness and tend to grief, opening more space for healing, gratitude, and joy.
Guided Practices
We do not think ourselves out of pain — we practice our way into greater ease and wellbeing. Try these free on-demand practices to start weaving neural pathways in support of your healing.
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The Enchanted Loom*
Weaving neural pathways for healing
I write in support of:
Making sense of emerging evidence beyond oversimplified takes or dogma
Breaking free from one-size-fits-all approaches and exploring nuanced and compassionate ways to heal and feel like yourself again
*I carry on the metaphor of “The Enchanted Loom” from pioneering neuroscientist Charles S. Sherrington