When someone you love is living with chronic pain, it can be hard to know how to help, especially when nothing you do can take the pain away. And if you’re in a caregiving role, formally or informally, you may be carrying more than anyone realizes. In this post, I’m sharing real, practical ways to support your loved one without losing sight of yourself in the process.

Weaving new neural pathways and possibilities healing, meaning, and ease. Integratingartful intentionality and the cultivation of liveliness in a way that does not banish the difficult parts of our story, but integrates them more fully into a rich tapestry of experience, honoring the full range of what it means to be human.

Is your diagnosis the whole story — or just the beginning? Let’s invite a fresh perspective on chronic symptoms and nociplastic pain, exploring how labels like fibromyalgia or depression can limit understanding. Drawing on insights from dormitive principles, we open space for curiosity, compassion, and the possibility of true healing.

Hypervigilance, pain catastrophizing, and avoidance are all natural responses to pain — and at the same time they can contribute to a pain-fear-avoidance cycle. Changing these behaviors, starting from a place of curious inquiry, can play a significant part in recovery.

All pain feels like it’s coming from the body, and nociplastic pain and symptoms are just as real as those from injury or tissue damage, so it can be difficult determine whether our pain is nociplastic pain. Learn about its characteristics and how it can be reversed..

Nociplastic pain involves pain creation or augmentation by the central nervous system through pathways that involve predictive processing, threat conditioning, sensory processing and altered pain modulation in the absence of tissue damage.

Neuroplasticity means our brain is constantly learning, evolving and changing. The consequence of this is that whatever we repeat – thoughts, feelings, behaviors – will change the connections and structure of our brain.