In Preparation for Our Sessions
In Depth Mind-Body Assessment
Hello, dear one.
Thank you for scheduling your in-depth mind-body assessment with me, encompassing three sessions. This will be a collaborative process of discovery in support of your healing and wellbeing, and I’m very grateful to be partnering with you.
Below you will find information about your upcoming sessions, as well as an invitation to answer two intake questionnaires and engage in a practice.
Our first session
You’ve received a confirmation email through my scheduler, Acuity, with the date and time for your session and a Zoom link. If you don’t see it in your inbox, please check your spam and promotions folders.
Our second session
Most people schedule the second session one week after the first one. Sometimes, because of your or my availability, there will be a longer pause between sessions.
Please use this link to schedule: https://liliagraue-scheduling.as.me/assessment-session-2
Our third session - integration
Most people find that they benefit from having a couple of weeks between session 2 and 3. This allows for you to notice what's arising in your experience, as well as any questions that might come up, after our first two sessions.
Please use this link to schedule: https://liliagraue-scheduling.as.me/assessment-session-3
In preparation for our session
In the following section, you’ll find two questionnaires for you to download, answer, and share with me.
Prior to answering them, I invite you to do this guided centering practice. And throughout and after you've answered it, you may like to do this loving kindness practice and/or this moving into wholeness practice.
Some people notice shifts in their experience in the process of answering the questionnaires, which might include some heightening of the sensations or symptoms. It might or might not happen for you; if it does please don't worry about it, it's actually a sign that we're on the right track.
I'm really looking forward to our time together. If you have any questions, please let me know. It usually takes me a few days to reply, I really appreciate your patience.
I’ll see you soon, and in the meantime I'm wishing you much ease.
Warmly,
Lily
Intake questionnaires
You will find two documents below, please click on each one and download them, and respond in as much or little detail as feels right for you.
If you choose to answer them, I'd appreciate it if you could send them to me at least a day prior to our session, so I can have some time to review them. Feel free to leave any of the questions unanswered, and to decide which aspects you'd rather discuss when we meet.
The intake questionnaire is in word, and you can complete it in the same document. The inventory of pain and other symptoms is in pdf, feel free to either edit in Adobe or Mac Preview or print, complete and scan.
Please email the forms with your answers to lilia@liliagraue.com with the subject: Intake forms.
Download inventory of pain and other symptoms with female diagram
Download inventory of pain and other symptoms with male diagram
FAQs
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The questionnaires above are thorough, and invite you to share as much or as little as you want. My clients usually share that they develop important insights through the process of answering the questions. And your responses help me develop a deeper and more nuanced understanding of who you are, what matters to you, what connects you with purpose and joy, what you want and need, the context of your lived experience, the resources you have access to, your symptom patterns, and other aspects that can open possibilities for healing and recovery.
The assessment includes three 50 minute sessions, and each session is shaped by your needs.
The first two sessions give us the time and space to explore your story, symptoms, needs, resources, and context in depth. We can identify patterns, clarify whether a neuroplastic component may be contributing to your symptoms, and, when helpful, use gentle provocative testing as developed by Dr. Howard Schubiner, with whom I am trained and certified, to bring additional insight. These sessions allow us to parse the complexity of your experience with nuance and precision, while fostering safety, trust, and clarity.
The third session focuses on integration. This is an opportunity to review what you’ve learned, answer any remaining questions, and clarify next steps for your healing and recovery.
In each session, we might start with a body based practice to help your nervous system access safety and trust as we go, or go straight into conversation: your choice.
We may explore education around pain science or nervous system regulation, bring awareness to stuck patterns, offer space to explore the connection between your symptoms and emotions that have been hard to access or express, identify parts of you that are yearning to be seen, heard, and tended to, and address anxiety or doubts about diagnoses you’ve received, treatments you’re engaging in, and your mindbody healing journey.
Sometimes sessions are more spacious and reflective. Others are more structured or directed. Always, we’ll work collaboratively, and move at the pace your bodymind can integrate and honoring what you want and need from our work together.
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Our work together will be focused within our scheduled sessions. This boundary supports the depth and sustainability of the care I provide, and also honors your capacity to integrate the work between sessions.
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If you believe you're dealing with a new, acute, or urgent medical issue, it's important to consult a licensed healthcare provider local to you, who can examine and order tests if necessary.
If you’re experiencing a medical emergency, please go to your nearest emergency service or call your local emergency number.
This in-depth assessment is a process of joint exploration and discovery. While I can offer education, context, and perspective to help you better understand your symptoms and have more informed conversations with your care team, it does not constitute or replace medical diagnosis or treatment.
Often, people with neuroplastic symptoms experience significant anxiety around health, even after different specialists have ruled out significant concerns, and with multiple lab/imaging results that are within the normal or expected range. They can find themselves caught in a loop or story that there is something terribly wrong that just hasn’t been found yet. If this sounds like you, the symptoms and anxiety you’re experiencing can be different manifestations of the fear-pain/symptom cycle that may be addressed, and healed, through a mindbody approach and neural repatterning practices. We can explore this together.
If there’s something I haven’t covered here that you’d like to ask me, contact me.
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